Confessions of an Introvert - The Shy Girl's Guide
A Book by Meghan Wier - An honest and often hilarious portrayal of the difficulties and rewards faced by young introverted business women seeking and destined for success.
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Confessions of an Introvert - New Publisher
Confessions of an Introvert will now be published by Spinx publishing! - The book will be released on Oct 1, 2008.
Sunday, August 26, 2007
I have not updated this blog in a year. A year. How embarrassing. So much has happened in a year. Some of which, I kept posted on various blogs. however, in short: I quit my job and moved South. I essentially retired, athough since I have a young son, there is really no such thing as being retired. I am not sure why you can't call yourself "retired" when you have kids in the house but you can't. I think it might have something to do with the amount of work that kids are. But I digress...
I am now in South Carolina. I am writing just about everything and every where with the obvious exception of this blog...
Confessions of an Introvert is selling internationally, although the business of selling books is a fickle and oft non-lucrative one. I am doing some corporate blogging. I have taken up golf - a perfectly respectable "retired-person" sort- of thing to do. I am happy, generally healthy, and trying to muster enough angst and consternation to put a second book together. It seems you need to have a difficult life to be a good writer. People are drawn to others with issues, challenges, problems, disabilities, bad bosses, glass ceilings. I have none of that. No one wants to hear about being a young retired ex-workaholic pursuing relaxation as a daily goal.
Well - that will all come to an end soon. I gave myself until September to get off my ass and get working again. Retirement - or time off --- well it isn't for me. As nice as it has been, the pendulum needs to swing back a little. I have already started to plan some book signings for the Fall, and I have joined a committee and a networking group. What will I do different this time? Well, I will try not to do everything. I will do more than nothing. I will do more than most, but less than some. I will find the balance I need - knowing that the balance changes sometimes. Right now it swings a bit towards needing to get off my hiney...
Sunday, September 24, 2006
BORDERS BOOKS - Book Signing
Announcing a Book Signing for Meghan Wier and Confessions of an Introvert:
FREIDAY, OCTOBER 6th 7-9pm
Stop by and get you signed copy of Confessions of an Introvert!
Monday, August 21, 2006
Book Signing Scheduled on September 9th 2-4 - Brambleberry Barn, Schoen Place, Pittsford, NY.
Saturday, February 04, 2006
Confessions of an Introvert, Book Sales Update
Ok folks, I have been lax in my own self promotion, and yet there are several great things to report. - As well as a kick in the butt that I need to get myself moving even further.
I have sold quite a few books in the first month of availability. I am quite happy with that. Through a series of emails to my contact list, an adwords campaign, my postcard mailings and the posting on the BNI site and Amazon and Barnes and Noble, I have done pretty good.
I can also report that several other online stores, including several in Europe have also listed my book. I have an Internationally sold book!
No official results are in, I get those in another month for January. But all in all, a great start.
I have made the request to iUniverse to change a couple minor typos, so as soon as that updated version is available I will start sending to the retailers and see if I can get any movement there.
One thing to note is that the more people who go to amazon.com and search for Confessions of an Introvert, the better my ranking is. For those who just want to click in - go ahead by clicking here. That will help me out, even if you don't buy the book.
Also, on the www.meghanwier.com site, I will have a PDF library soon for downloads of excerpts from Confessions of an Introvert and other publicity information, and some article about business networking, search engine optimization (SEO) and other topics of interest.
Thanks to all who support me.
Sunday, January 15, 2006
A little Self Promotion
Irony... Irony is writing a book about being an introvert and then needing to promote it. I have a TV interview scheduled tomorrow and I am scared and excited at the same time. It is great to have the opportunity and hard to "want" to go at the same time.
It made me think that I should share the section of Confessions of an Introvert about the 10 Ways to Self Promote--besides it is a good review for me since this is what the reporter wants to talk about (that too is irony my friends!)
TEN WAYS TO SELF PROMOTE
“Without promotion something terrible happens…Nothing!”
OK, here it is—the big secret. If you wait around it may not happen, and you will fall farther behind those who know. What am I talking about? Self-promotion! I’m sorry I had to break it to you. If you are invisible to the world, it doesn’t matter how good you are. So get noticed. How does an introvert get that recognition? The answer is: in steps. Take small steps in your quest for promotion, first taking on the things that are easiest for you, then taking on the more challenging.
Here are some ways to self-promote, and be more visible:
1. Get a website, or blog. Create a place where you can write about subjects that interest you and that relate to your business. Begin to establish yourself as an expert in your field. The online community doesn’t care if you are shy; as long as you can write and have unique ideas or an interesting way to express yourself.
2. Find a local business publication that takes freelance writers and write articles for it. There is a good chance you won’t get paid, but you can use these articles to promote yourself and your business and potentially get paid for your writing later on. Cite these articles when meeting with prospects or to strengthen your relationship with your customers. When I was on maternity leave I began reading a lot of business journals and technology websites to stay current.
After I went back to work, I kept up my reading, and noticed several of them were seeking submissions. In one case I met with the local editor and we brainstormed several areas on which I could write. My articles were posted on the web, and in the print version with my picture, my bio, and my company information. This was an excellent way for me to generate some additional interest in my company and in me after being out of the loop for several months.
3. Get to know the media. Make an effort to know at least a couple members of your local media. Newspaper reporters, TV anchors, news directors, editors, and radio personalities are all looking for great subjects to report on. By bringing these people into your network, you will become a valued and important resource to them. Give them a good story, and they will come back to you again and again.
4. Find a PR buddy. Do you know another deserving, yet under-recognized individual that you can trust with a little covert operation? Share your hopes and ambitions with this person, tell him or her about accolades you would like to receive, and offer to nominate your friend for an award or write a public interest story about them. Ask them to do the same for you.
5. Send out a monthly or quarterly personal e-newsletter.
An associate of mine sends out an email newsletter monthly to everyone in his distribution list. His is similar to a Christmas letter (“we just moved into out new office;” “we have a
new product at work;” “the weather has been great…”), and over the years I feel that I have gotten to know him better from this monthly letter. Just remember that you are sending this out to your business associates, so there is no need to get too personal! Most people won’t care that your niece has chicken pox and that you just bought new lawn furniture, so keep it mostly business.
6. Have a professional bio written. Hire a professional résumé and bio writer. The bio can be used on your website, when applying for executive positions, or when nominated for awards. A decent bio written by someone else can tout your accomplishments in ways you might feel uncomfortable doing yourself! This same person can also write an incredible résumé for you for the same reason.
7. Offer to speak at seminars, or schedule your own. Speaking at seminars is a wonderful way to promote yourself and your business. If the big seminar-style opportunity doesn’t feel comfortable for you, look for “round-tables” or panel discussions to speak at. They are more casual, and there will be more than one speaker, so you won’t have to be all alone on stage. A few years ago, I was asked participate at a Women in Computers discussion at a local university on networking and mentorship. I hadn’t ever taken part in a panel discussion before and didn’t know what to expect. But it was a lot of fun, and since then I have become a big fan of this type of setting for self-promotion. I found that it was good to have other speakers there to fill in the gaps when I needed a little help answering a question, and I learned a lot from the variety of participants. The environment was relaxed, and I was relatively comfortable and had a lot to add to the discussion. No matter the forum, take the opportunity to get yourself noticed by your community and industry.
8. Follow Up. The best way to be remembered is to follow up, and follow up with everything! Call to confirm meetings, call to make sure people got the information you sent, call to make sure your clients are happy. Let your clients, prospects, and contacts know you are out there and that you are thinking of them. I make following up so important because on several occasions I have gone to a lunch meeting to meet with a colleague or client and never gotten to eat, because they never showed up. I hate sitting in the waiting area, getting sympathetic looks from the hostess. I had a lunch meeting a few years ago at one of the fanciest restaurants in town. When I entered I was immediately ushered to a table, and even though I said I was waiting for another person. After waiting for 20 minutes at my table, I decided to order. I was hungry, and on a schedule, and I was sure my colleague would join me soon. Unfortunately though, I ended up eating alone, which was bad enough at a nice restaurant, but several people I knew also came through the restaurant that day, including an ex-boyfriend, an old boss, and the mayor. “Hi Meg, eating alone?” I was so embarrassed that I am now extra prudent about these follow up calls!
9. Smile for the camera! Have a good professional photo taken and put that on your business cards, website, and/or company brochure. People will remember you more when they can put a face with a name.
10. Have a “tag line.” When you introduce yourself, use a tag line or a clever saying that will be remembered and will help others associate you with what you do. (At BizNetix, we “put your biz on the net”—it may be corny, but it’s memorable and effective!) Self-promotion is important to reaching the next levels of success, and it can be done tastefully, and professionally. Look for opportunities, don’t be afraid to ask for help, and remember to keep your ultimate goals in mind!